Archives for September 2012

Sep 23

Imperfect Progress~Unglued, Week 1, Monday

Hello and Happy Monday from Charlotte, NC, USA!  Thanks for joining me in the Unglued Online Bible Study!  We are just getting started and I’m so happy you are joining me.

If you missed yesterday’s post containing our Week 1 Assignments, you can see them all here.

This is your assignment for today.

Read Chapter 1,  An Invitation to Imperfect Progress. Use a highlighter to highlight parts you want to remember or come back and read later. Make notes in your notebook of key Scripture (like the Memory Verse) and important things to remember from Chapter 1.

Look up our first Memory Verse in your Bible. Highlight it. Write it in your notebook or on some notecards. Practice it and ask God how you can apply it personally to your life. (If you can’t see the picture, visit my blog by clicking here.)

“…let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.”  Hebrews 12:1b

Twitter Users, Tweet this today:

“God gave me emotions so I could experience life, not destroy it.”~ @LysaTerKeurst @MTBibleStudies Week 1 #UngluedBook

In @MTBibleStudies, we are making imperfect progress together! Week 1 #UngluedBook

Facebook Users, Post this today:

“God gave me emotions so I could experience life, not destroy it.”~LysaTerKeurst, Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies,Week 1 Unglued

In Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies, we are making imperfect progress together! Week 1 Unglued Online Bible Study

An Amazing Woman and a Give-Away (3 give-aways!)

Here’s a chance for you to win 1 of 3 Conference Call Series Give-Aways and I also want you to meet our special guest of the week, Deborah Smith Pegues, author of 30 Days to Taming Your Tongue and 30 Days to Taming Your Emotions.

Bestselling author and international speaker, Deborah Smith Pegues, delivers sage advice on relational, financial, and emotional freedom for secular and religious audiences around the world. She is a high-energy, inspiring motivator, effectively incorporating humor and hard-hitting directness into her presentations to her never-bored listeners. Deborah has the unique ability to address readers across all social, racial, and economic strata.

A prolific writer, her most popular book, 30 Days to Taming the Tongue, challenges readers to embark upon 30 days of verbal abstinence from 30 negative uses of the tongue including complaining, gossiping, lying, retaliating, etc. (I have personally read this book and can honestly say it helped my life and especially my marriage tremendously. I really thought about the words that came out of my mouth! Love it! This book is a Proverbs 31 Ministries Best Seller.)

Her newest book, 30 Days to Taming Your Emotions, challenges readers as well to take a good look at how they react emotionally. This book is a consolidation of 30 Days to Taming Your Stress, 30 Days to a Great Attitude, and Supreme Confidence (condensed version). Thus, it contains 90 practical tips that will help you discover the calm, confident, caring you—all in one volume.

If you order from Deborah’s website, she will personally autograph your book!!!!  Wow!  Check out all of her books and order information here:

Deborah is my first guest in our Unglued Conference Call Series this week. This is an optional part of our study, but it truly is worth your time if you are looking to connect in a different way and get some valuable insight and perspective on the Unglued principles. These calls will challenge you and give you application you can implement immediately. To order the conference calls, click here. I am super honored to have Deborah join us on our first call! Our first call is Wednesday, September 26th at 8 pm EST.

For a chance to win 1 of 3 Conference Call Give-Aways, leave a  comment here today by participating in the Discussion & Community part of today’s blog post. (right below)

Discussion & Community

Right here, on my blog,  join in the discussion of Chapter 1.  What really jumped into your heart as you read Chapter 1?  What was a key quote or point that you can take away from this chapter.

All who share today will be entered to win 1 of 3 Conference Call Series prizes. Winners will be announced in Tuesday’s blog post so comment soon!

If you are receiving this via email, click here to go directly to my blog and leave a comment. I can’t wait to hear your comments about Chapter 1! Let me know what you think about “imperfect progress.”

Thanks again for joining me! I love you and I’m so thankful for each of you!

Sep 22

Unglued~Week 1


I am. You are. We all are. And that’s why we are doing this Unglued Online Study. The study will not make us perfect, but we will make imperfect changes. “Imperfect changes are slow steps of progress wrapped in grace…imperfect progress.” ~ Lysa TerKeurst, Chapter 1, Unglued

If you cannot see the video, please click here.

Memory Verses for Week 1

Chapter 1

Hebrews 12:1b NIV84

… let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.

Chapter 2

2 Corinthians 10:5 NIV84

We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

Suggested Assignments for Week 1

****Note: depending on what side of the world you are on, the day may be different for you, and that is okay. I am in Charlotte, NC USA on Eastern Standard Time.

*****Another Note: Thursday will be Unglued Blog Hop Day. If you have a blog AND write a message that relates to Chapters 1 or 2 of Unglued, you can share it and I’ll link to your blog. This will give you the opportunity to share with us! So, bloggers, get those blog posts ready and bring them here on Thursday to share. I want to be read what you have to say!

Sunday~ Pray like you mean it. Take 5 minutes and pray for:

  • Yourself-that God would speak to you personally through this study and that you will listen and be open to His will for your life. Pray that you will stay committed throughout this study to read, keep up with your assignments, and get the most out of this time that you possibly can.
  • Your Bible Study Community-that each of us would gain more hope and closeness to God through this study. Pray for each other’s homes, jobs, and families. Pray whatever is on your heart for our OBS community.
  • Your Online Bible Study Leaders-pray for the OBS team to also be still and listen to God throughout this study. Pray for balance in our lives and wisdom as we lead here. Pray that we will not move one step forward without the Lord. And pray for His favor over each of us and this OBS.

If you’d like to share in the comment section, that would be great. But you don’t have to. Your prayers are most importantly between you and God, but for those of us who are just learning to pray, reading the prayers of others could be very helpful. It’s up to you :)

Get prepared for Monday. Go ahead and have your book and any other supplies you might need (Bible, notebook, pen, highlighters) set out or in a bag together where you can find it easily. Get a good night’s sleep.

Monday~ Read Chapter 1,  An Invitation to Imperfect Progress. Use a highlighter to highlight parts you want to remember or come back and read later. Make notes in your notebook of key Scripture (like the Memory Verse) and important things to remember from Chapter 1. e

Visit my blog, to join in the discussion of Chapter 1. There will be a chance for you to win 1 of 3 Conference Call Series Give-Aways and you will also meet our special guest of the week, Deborah Smith Pegues, author of 30 Days to Taming Your Tongue and 30 Days to Taming Your Emotions.

Tuesday~ Visit my blog, There are reflection and discussion questions for you to answer in your personal notebook pertaining to Chapter 1. Have your Bible handy because we will be using them. Giving away 1 copy of 30 Days to Taming Your Tongue and 1 copy of 30 Days to Taming Your Emotions by Deborah Smith Pegues to 2 lucky peeps who leave a comment today!

Wednesday~ Read Chapter 2, I’m Not a Freak Out Woman.  Use a highlighter to mark those aha moments and key points you want to remember. Visit Deborah Smith Pegues website and look around. She is so wise about confronting issues and how to handle what we say and our emotions in a healthy way. Visit my blog if you have time and check in. I’ll be announcing some winners!

Optional: Bloggers, get ready for the Unglued Blog Hop tomorrow! Have your Unglued post ready on your blog for Thursday. Tomorrow you will fill in the form that will be on my blog. This will link others to your blog. I’m hoping that many will participate in this. I’d love to read your blogs and what you are learning or have to say about Unglued. And for those of you who don’t blog, no worries! You will have many Unglued messages to read and enjoy. Everyone will benefit!

Unglued Conference Calls begin tonight! Deborah Smith Pegues is our special guest. She has much to share with us about conflict and handling our emotions. We will also be dissecting our Memory Verses and be challenged with a take home message to use right away. If you want to be a part of these calls, you can sign up here. This Conference Call Series is optional.

Thursday~ Today is going to be lots of fun! Visit my blog, From there, we will be visiting our  bloggy friends from all over the world who are writing about this Unglued message! It’s an Unglued Blog Hop! It’s fun and we will learn a lot from each other!

For Facebook Users- We are having a party today! Whoo-hoo!!!  Join us today at 4 pm EST on Online Bible Studies Facebook Page

Friday~ Visit my blog, Today I have a video message for you and some discussion and reflection questions about Chapter 2. Record your answers in your personal notebook and please also share in the comment section of my blog with your awesome Online Bible Studies Group!

Let’s finish strong this week!


For You Social Media Gurus

At OBS, we LOVE social media outlets where we can share more of God’s love and truth! If you are on Twitter, Facebook, or Pinterest, please like/follow us, share our posts. We have some from Week 1 all ready for you to share :)


“God gave me emotions so I could experience life, not destroy it.”~ @LysaTerKeurst @MTBibleStudies Week 1 #UngluedBook

In @MTBibleStudies, we are making imperfect progress together! Week 1 #UngluedBook

“I can face things that are out of my control and not act out of control.”~ @LysaTerKeurst @MTBibleStudies Week 1

“We can’t always fix our circumstances, but we can fix our thoughts on God.”~ @LysaTerKeurst @MTBibleStudies Week 1 #UngluedBook

“I am not a freak-out woman.”~ @LysaTerKeurst @MTBibleStudies Week 1 #UngluedBook



“God gave me emotions so I could experience life, not destroy it.”~LysaTerKeurst, Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies,Week 1 Unglued

In Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies, we are making imperfect progress together! Week 1 Unglued Online Bible Study

“I can face things that are out of my control and not act out of control.”~LysaTerKeurst, Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies,Week 1 Unglued

“We can’t always fix our circumstances, but we can fix our thoughts on God.”~LysaTerKeurst, Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies,Week 1 Unglued

“I am not a freak-out woman.”~LysaTerKeurst, Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies, Week 1 Unglued



Pins for Chapters 1 & 2 are up!  Follow and repin!


This is a lot of information, but remember, this is your guide for the whole week! Hang on to this (print it or make it a favorite) so you can refer to it during the week so you’ll know what to do. It may seem overwhelming at first, but as we get started, you will get the hang of it.

Please leave a comment or ask a question in the comment section. Our team will get back to you as soon as we can.

I hope you are as excited as I am about this Online Bible Study! I love this book, I love applying the Bible to my real life, and I love to study with others. Thank you so much for joining me!  Here we go!

Sep 21

Important Unglued Study Info~Read This and Respond

This is the same post from Wednesday, but it’s SO IMPORTANT I’m posting it again. Make sure you read this before the study begins on Sunday!

Dear Unglued Online Bible Study Friends,

Hey!!! It’s almost time to begin and I have some very important information to make sure you get the most out of this study!

PRINT OR SAVE THIS! Just FYI, I will be posting this Wednesday and Friday. So you will see it twice or more. It’s that important.

I can hardly contain myself.  I’M SO STINKIN’ EXCITED!!!  Yes I know all caps means I’m yelling and I am. I’m dancing too!  We’ve been talking about it for so long and now it’s almost time.

This email/blog post is VERY IMPORTANT if you are participating in the Online Bible Study (OBS).  Please read each and every word.  Then in the comment section, let me know you’ve read this and understand. If you don’t understand, ask your question(s) in the comment section. An OBS team member or I will reply, so make sure you check back.

If you are receiving this via Email, you can get to my blog and comment by clicking here.

Unglued Online Bible Study

What You Must Know

1.  The study takes place at  This is your #1 source of information. All other outlets, such as Facebook and Twitter are just options. The study is not run on Facebook and you do not have to have Facebook or Twitter to do this study. Only my blog.  You may hear me refer to FB and Twitter on occasion, I use them as supplements and free options for more interaction.

2.  Every Sunday, beginning September 23rd, the Unglued Suggested Assignments for that week will be posted at .  You can give yourself a reminder to check my blog daily or sign up to receive my blog via email. This sign up is different than signing up for the Unglued Bible Study.  Look UNDER my picture in the right column. You should see a place to subscribe to my blog posts via Feedburner or Email. I suggest email. That way the study will always come to you and you don’t have to remember to come to it. It is up to you to check for the weekly assignments. If you have ANY problems understanding how to do this, just ask.   (There is no certain time of day that you have to check my blog, check it at your convenience. That’s the beauty of an online study!)

3.  There will be useful content on my blog pertaining to the Unglued study all during the week. I highly encourage blog participation. This is where worldwide community takes place. There will be homework and study ideas, memory verse suggestions, discussion questions, video messages, and opportunities for anyone who blogs about Unglued to share their blog post weekly.  You have to visit my blog daily or subscribe to the posts (see #2) in order to access everything the study offers.

4.  You must have the Unglued book in order to participate in this Online Bible Study. We will be using the book. You will not need any other Unglued materials at all, but you do need the book.  You can order or pick up the book almost anywhere books are sold. We have plenty here at Proverbs 31 Ministries. Click here to purchase Unglued. (note: If you ordered other Unglued materials, you will LOVE them. Use them for personal use to enhance this study.)

5.  Other items that will be helpful for this study:  a Bible, a notebook, pen or pencil, highlighter  (If you do not or can not get a Bible, please email

6.  You will get out of this study exactly what you put in to it. As your Bible Study Leader, I will be encouraging you to keep up with our schedule (2 chapters per week) by carving out a specific time to work on Bible Study. Make this study a priority. You signed up. To me that means you are making a real comittment to this study. You can do this!  Make this a priority in your life. You are worth it! And you won’t regret it!

7. Online Bible Study Archives~ If you ever miss a few days or miss a post, have no fear. Every part of this study on this blog is saved in our archives. Just below the Proverbs 31 Ministries logo in the right column, you will see “Online Bible Study Archives.”  Click “Unglued” and you will find all posts pertaining to this OBS. Practice and make sure you understand this now.

8.  Our OBS Team wants to hear from you. There are many ladies who work behind the scenes to make sure this all comes together. Please share with us in the comment section during the study. We love to hear from you and it lets us know we aren’t alone. We desire real life community. We need you. You are a valuable part of this OBS.


Meet the Team

Online Bible Studies Leader~ Melissa Taylor,

OBS Facebook Small Group CoordinatorLisa Kramp

OBS Group Coordinator’s Sidekick~Veronica Herzing

OBS Executive Assistant~ Angie Combs,,

OBS Social Media Creative Administrators:

*Facebook & Twitter~ Heather Bleier (US), Nicki Edwards (Australia)

*Pinterest~ Veronica Herzing

Memory Verses~Heather Bleier

International Ambassador~ Nicki Edwards

Special Events~ Kristi Seat

Prayer Team~ Kandace Poindexter, Tracey Kirch

Advisors~ Stephanie Clayton, Donna Bostick

All Online Bible Studies Questions can be directed to Angie Combs.


Options for You

Options are just that. They are options. Good, not not required.

1. Unglued Conference Call Series Part 2~ Ask those who have participated and they will tell you, they LOVE the conference calls. Check out the awesome content and guests you will meet during this series here.

2. Online Bible Studies Facebook Page~ There is activity for Facebook users pertaining to our study 24 hours a day, on both sides of the world on this page. If you are a Facebook user, please “Like” our Online Bible Studies Facebook Page and join in the fun. We also have special events on our Facebook page, like parties, study discussion, and conference call notes.

3. @MTBibleStudies~ If you are a Twitter user, than you already understand what @MTBibleStudies means.  Yes, that is our Twitter name. If you are a Twitter user,follow us on Twitter for inspiration and information that you can use.

4. Pinterest~ This is one of the fastest growing crazes on the internet right now. If you are into Pinterest, you are in luck, because so are we! We will have verses and key themes from our OBS posted regularly and ready for you to pin on your boards! Follow us on Pinterest!

5. Lysa TerKeurst~ Lysa will be an active part of our OBS. Not only will she be on one of ourconference calls, but she will also be reading the OBS blog posts and your comments. You can follow Lysa’s blog here. In case you don’t know, Lysa is the author of Unglued.

6. Proverbs 31 Ministries Daily Devotions~ Absolutely free. And absolutely a great way to start your day. Sign up here.


Coming Up Next

We don’t want to get too far ahead, but we also don’t want the time to fly by without being informed.

There will just be ONE WEEK between the Unglued OBS and our next OBS, Greater, by Steven Furtick.

Don’t delay! Check it out and sign up for the Greater OBS here.


How Did You Do?

I want to make sure that you are comfortable with this OBS.  Did you real ALL of this letter?  Do you understand everything?  Please do not “reply” to this by hitting the “reply” button. If you have any questions, post them in the comment section of my blog. Click here to go to my blog if you are receiving this via email so you can leave a comment. The OBS Team and I will check and respond to all questions. Also, leave a comment (click comments at the bottom of this post) just to let us know that you did indeed read all of this and that you understand how the study works.

I’m super excited to get started! If you know of anyone who would like to join us, it’s not too late!  Share the OBS with your friends and family. It’s a great way to do a study with someone who doesn’t live near you or whose schedule doesn’t match yours. Make sure they sign up for the Online Study in the top right column of my blog.

Much love to each of you and don’t get frustrated if you see this message a few more times. It’s the only way I can make sure everyone sees it. Grace, grace, grace!

Unglued Blessings,