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Friday, May 17th, 2013

Hello and aren’t we glad it’s Friday?  I have been truly blessed by your comments this week. I love seeing how you ladies are getting into the Bible, drawing close to God and learning to live a stressed-less life. You challenge me to dig deeper and go further. I absolutely love this Online Bible Study community and treasure our time together.

This week we have learned that just like most tasks, there is a series of steps and we must begin with step one ~ “seek first.”

As I have focused on our reflection verse this week, Matthew 6:33, I have found that by seeking God’s presence first, the stress of my current situations have begun to fall into place. I know that God is in complete control; I simply need to lay everything at His feet and completely trust in His will and His timing.

Throughout Chapter Six, Tracie did an incredible job of laying out just how much we need God. You and I cannot do it on our own; we were never meant to. One of the keys to being better equipped to handle the stress in our lives is “abiding in Christ.”

Abiding in Christ. What does that mean?

The enemy wants more than anything for each one of us to stay in a state of feeling discouraged and unable to handle the circumstances in our lives. Many times this causes us to turn inward instead of reaching out to the only one who can truly help us ~ God. By focusing on our self and not God or reaching out to others, we become ineffective for the Kingdom. Therefore, you and I must guard our hearts and stay alert, so we can clearly distinguish the lies that the enemy tries to get us to believe. Keep in mind that “God not only sees our flaws, mistakes and insecurities, he loves us despite them. He sees a deeper beauty and worth in us than what anyone else can see, even more than we see in the mirror every day” (pg. 132). Do not fall victim to believe any less about yourself.

You, dear friend, are loved (I John 4:19), wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), chosen (Deuteronomy 14:2) and strong (Philippians 4:13).  Take a moment to look these verses up in your Bible. Underline or highlight them and write the date beside them. Write them in your journal or on notecards to post where you will see them. Allow God’s Word to enter your mind and then hide in your heart.

 

Your Turn (share in the comment section):

  • Share what you learned through your verse-mapping this week
  • What is your take away from Chapter 6?
  • What does “abiding in Christ” mean to you?
  • How has this study changed or impacted your life?

 

CONGRATULATIONS!  Our Weekly Prize Winner of the Stress Relief Pack is Wendy, email beginning waw94.  Wendy, email your full name, mailing address, and the prize you won to Angie@Proverbs31.org.  This week’s prize was donated by our awesome Week 6 leader, Jamy Whitaker. Thank you Jamy for a great week!

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Thursday, May 16th, 2013

Best day of the week in my humble opinion…

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This week’s topics:

1.  Seek First. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. ~Matthew 6:33 NIV. Verse map our reflection verse for three days and share with us how your heart responds to His Word.

2.  I’m A Big Girl! Think of a time when you thought you could do it all by yourself. What happened to make you change your mind?

3. Lay Down My Pride. Chapter 5. How has the issue of pride become a stumbling block in your life? How is the Stressed-Less Living study helping you draw closer to God?

4.  #Blessed. Add to your #Blessed entry or start one today!


Next week’s topics:

1.  What-EVER. “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:8. Map our reflection verse for three days and share with us how your heart responds to His Word.

2. God is Here. We are always growing and maturing in our faith. At times, our faith grows with one big leap. All of a sudden, things seem clearer and God seems close enough to touch. Describe a time when you experienced God in a profound way and in turn, your faith made a leap forward.

3.  Not my Goliath. Chapter 6. God provides us with what is needed to face the Goliaths in our lives. What are some big things you are facing right now? How are you depending on God’s strength to face these Goliaths?

4.  #Blessed. Add to your #Blessed entry or start one today!

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Yours in Christ,

Heather Bleier

OBS Executive Team

 

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Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

I love listening to the local Christian radio station, WBGL, whether I am in the car or at home on my computer. Besides playing wonderful music that speaks to my heart, they also have radio spots from various ministries. This is how I first heard about Proverbs 31 Ministries. I came to look forward to the 1-minute P31 radio devotions by Lysa TerKeurst and Renee Swope.

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If you can’t see Lysa and Renee in the picture above, click here to view directly on the blog.

In their short radio devotions, I received such hope and encouragement. Lysa and Renee offered a godly perspective about real-life struggles and gave real-life solutions to everyday issues in a down-to-earth and relevant way. I realized I wasn’t the only woman thinking or feeling this way. Lysa and Renee are so real. I could relate with these women through the airwaves. My favorite part is how they break down biblical principals into bite-sized pieces for women to carry with them through the day.

I am simply amazed at how God works. By connecting to these ladies through the radio program, I began to learn more about Proverbs 31. This is how I discovered Melissa’s website and started participating in the Online Bible Study, and now I am a member of the teaching team and one of the leaders. This is a wonderful reminder that you never know where God will lead.

One great thing about the P31 radio ministry is that it goes where you are – on the internet or in the car. You can also listen to or read Lysa and Renee’s one-minute devotional messages at your convenience through the P31 website archives and P31 radio podcasts. Be sure to click the link to find out where you can listen to Proverbs 31 Ministries in your area or online via our podcast or at OnePlace.com

Your turn – Be sure to leave your answers in the comment section to be entered to win this week’s give away. BONUS PRIZE~ Answer one (or more) of today’s questions and you will be entered to win a Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Radio CD containing 40 radio shows from Lysa and Renee! There will be 3 winners!

  • Where do you listen to the radio most often (i.e. home, computer, ipod, car)?
  • Do you listen the Christian radio – online or on the air?
  • Have you ever heard the Proverbs 31 Radio Ministry on your local radio station?
  • If there were one or two topics you’d like Renee or Lysa to talk about {in one-minute} on the radio, what would they be?

A note from Renee: We’d love to hear your feedback about our show {if you’ve heard it on the air or online.} Also, if your local Christian station doesn’t air the P31 show, let us know if you’d like to help make that a possibility. Just email radio@proverbs31.org with “My Local Station” in the subject line. :)

We love connecting with friends and listeners, so thank you Melissa, Jamy & OBS team for sharing about our P31 show!!

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Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

Here is an awesome graphic to go along with our verse! SLL Week 6 Verse Graphic

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I Can Do It Myself…or Can I?

Being a mother, I know all too well how eager children are to gain independence. We hear a child say, “I can to it myself” and we kind of laugh to ourselves, realizing that they can’t do everything by themselves. However, don’t you and I do the exact same thing from time to time? Think back, a situation arises in your life and you try and figure out how you can fix it. You try first one thing and then the next, mentally checking off every possible solution until you resort to the last thing that comes to mind, God and prayer.

This idea is not only seen in the “big” issues of life, but even in the small things, like our quiet time. When we do not make the time to spend with God, we are in essence saying that we can “do” life day to day without God’s help. In other words, “I’ve got this taken care of. I will let you know if something major comes up, God, and I need your assistance.”

You and I were not created to go it on our own. God longs for us to come to Him and ask for His help and guidance.

Before we go any further, I would like you to take a moment and just let the words of this song wash over you today.

 

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Tracie has broken this chapter down into 4 parts:

  • The Lion Never Sleeps
  • Prepare for the Thief
  • Prepped for Battle
  • Rebel and Suffer the Consequences

After your have read all of Chapter 6, please complete the reflection questions on page 135-137. The reflection questions are a wonderful way of taking what you have learned in the chapter and begin to apply it to your life. I know that it takes time and effort, but our stress is not going to simply go away. You and I must not only read about what to do, but actually begin taking the steps to eliminate it. Trust me, it is worth it and God will bless your effort.

Your Turn to Share (in the comment section) ~

  • Share your favorite quotes
  • Scripture
  • “Light bulb” moments from Chapter 6

*Your next assignment will not be until Friday, so you have 3 days to complete this. Be sure to come back Thursday for the Blog Hop.

 

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Monday, May 13th, 2013

 

Our reflection verse this week, Matthew 6:33, gives us a promise if we make the choice to have God first in our lives.

“But seek first his kingdom,” the first part of this verse plainly tells us to turn to God first. He needs to be our first choice and not our last resort. We are called to seek Him first. God demands first place in our lives. The word seek means, “to pursue, crave, go after with all your might.”

When one of my boys has lost a precious toy, he goes about with great determination to find the lost item. It is all he can think about, talk about and is willing to go to great lengths for it. My child is seeking the lost item just like you and I need to be seeking God. However, we do need to be mindful in seeking God that we are seeking His “presence” and not His “presents”. God delights when we choose to spend time with Him because of who He is and not what He can do for us. Think about it this way, do you want a person to be your friend simply because of what you can give them? Absolutely not, then let’s not do the same thing with God.

The next portion, “and his righteousness,” is talking about being filled with God’s desires and be willing to serve and obey Him in everything. The question we have to ask ourselves is “what is really important?”

In our fast-paced, crazy scheduled lives there is simply not time to do everything. This leads to feelings of being overwhelmed and stressed. The only answer is to prioritize and ask what’s important. You and I will make time in our lives for what is important. If God isn’t top priority – first place – other things will take His place and He will not have a place or time in our lives. Therefore, you and I will not feel true peace and the joy of living with less stress.

Matthew 6:33 is situated in a passage where Jesus is teaching about worry. Christ called his disciples to a life free from worry, a life that is defined by trusting God to provide for their daily needs. Like his disciples, Jesus wants us to focus our first energies and priorities on the Kingdom of God because He understood how burdensome and destructive worry and stress could be in our lives. The simple solution is to look at God’s faithful provision in our lives.

However, there are times in my own life that I simply feel weighed down and can’t see how I will make it through. There is just too much to do, too many bills to pay, too many places to go, too many people wanting a portion of me….but GOD. You and I must remember that God gives us enough grace to face each day’s challenges. He will see us through whatever circumstance we find ourselves in. In these times of feeling overwhelmed and drowning, it is a wonderful time to stop and think of how God has provided in the past.

Your Turn to Share

  • I  encourage you to not only look up the other stress busting scriptures at the end of Chapter 6, but to journal about them. Which one of these scriptures spoke to you today?
  • Write out our reflection verse for the week, Matthew 6:33 and keep a copy with you or posted to remind you to stop and think about what is important and to strive to seek God first in all things. This would be a wonderful verse to try verse-mapping. I would love to see your photos of your verse-mapping or have you share what stuck out to you in this verse.

Be sure to comment throughout the week to be entered to win the stress relief goodies pictured.

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